Crime in Your Area

Everyone should be aware of the crime that goes on in their area and the areas they frequent.

Neighborhood Scout has a website that breaks it all the way down. I’ve been utilizing this site for years because it’s very in depth and easy to understand. Strangely enough it’s a real estate site…I know weird 🤣

Here’s a link for crime in KY as that is the state I currently reside but you can find info on any state in America. https://www.neighborhoodscout.com/ky/crime

Also the Feds have the CDE, Crime Data Explorer, site. I’m new to this site. I don’t like the way it spins when you click the link lol, I’m a mess, however I did like the info and set up. https://crime-data-explorer.fr.cloud.gov/pages/explorer/crime/crime-trend

The Feds also have the fbi.gov site as well. It is called UCR, Uniform Crime Reporting. Crime Data Explorer(CDE), upon further investigation it seems is the new UCR or combined with it? The below statement is off the UCR site…
Explore UCR
The FBI’s Crime Data Explorer (CDE) is the digital front door for UCR data. The interactive online tool enables law enforcement and the public to more easily use and understand the massive amounts of UCR data currently collected. With it, users can view charts and graphs that break down data in a variety of ways.

Regardless, you can never have too much knowledge when it comes to safety. Your local police and sheriif departments should have a site with tjis information as well.

As always be safe and be aware!

Questions or comments, please contact me at 4kidz4jobz@gmail.com or leave them here.

Manifest Love

To manifest your true love you need to get focused on what you want in your true love.

Make a list of all the qualities you are looking for in a man/woman and a relationship. Be honest, clear and concise in what you want because you will get what you ask for, or not get what you don’t ask for. If you want them buff, ask for that. If you want them to be established, ask for that. If you don’t want them to be annoying or married, ask for that. Whatever you desire. You can go over the list occasionally, but don’t dwell on it.

Next, do something that may help you meet them…go out with friends, take a new route home, go to a different store. You have to do different things to get different results. Also heed signs from the Universe.💯

Don’t do anything that will block your blessings. By this I mean don’t start throwing yourself at everyone you meet. Don’t sign up for a dating website and get lost in all the attention. It’s okay to be selective. 🧐

When someone shows interest go slow and see if they check any or all of the boxes of your true love’s qualities. Be cautious and don’t settle for someone who MAY BE the one, wait for THE ONE. If you have waited this long and put in the effort of finding your soulmate why not be certain you find the right one. The one you dreamed of and called into your reality.

Most importantly, give Thanks to your higher power for sending your true love to you.

I have a free guide that has a Love Affirmation 💘 along with this information and other tips on manifesting your dream partner. Just comment “Love” and I’ll email it!

If you have questions about manifesting and LOA, feel free to contact me @4kidz4jobz@gmail.com.

Catfishing is still real🙄

The fact that I am writing this in April of 2022 is utterly ridiculous 😫 However, here I am trying to inform whoever needs to hear this that CATFISHING is a JOB for folks. I mean real deal, pays the bills, makes a fool of innocent folks, job.

I was catfished, for one day recently. I signed up for a dating site on Friday and by Saturday this fine ass man was in my inbox. Now, I was mad at myself for going along with it as long as I did. But not so much cause I was leary the whole 24 hours and made sure he knew I didn’t completely trust him.

There were red flags out the gate once we left the site and started texting like the wording of his texts. He wasn’t using good grammar which was weird cause he looked American. Anywho, I let that slide cause his grammar improved, which was weird. Another was when he said he would delete the app and be exclusive with me after about an hour of texting. He would also stop texting for periods of time then come back talking bout reception was bad…even tho he told me he was in Houston for work and from Nashville and had an IPhone 🤥 This happened at least 3 times throughout the night.

Next, was Sunday. He sent me a text around 1230am or 1am talking bout good night after another phone mishap and I hadn’t heard from him in hours. When I woke up at 5am I replied to the text and he replied right back! I asked “why are you up?” He said, “cause you texted.”🤨 Then he sent me pics of “his kids” with him. First of all, he said his kids were 18 and 8. Child please, in the pic the 2 boys were maybe 2 yrs apart and the oldest in the pic was like 11 or 12. I asked him to video chat and he gave the tired old excuse of not being able to work the camera on the phone 😒

At this point my Spidey senses are on high alert ⚠️  I asked him if he could call me and he hit me with he was shy on the phone. Yeah right, finally I asked how tall he was and he said 5’7″…no way the guy in the pics was that short. I snapped!🤬

I cussed him up one side and down the other on Easter Sunday 🤷🏾‍♀️ 🙏🏾He still tried to play like I was tripping and should trust him so I told him call me right now. He didn’t call in one minute and I told him he was a 🤡 and that I was reporting his profile.  Then I blocked him and reported his profile.

I’m sure the majority of the people on these sites are fake accounts but you don’t want to loose faith in people. Catfishing brings you back to the reality of the fact people suck.

So, if you or someone you love thinks they are being Catfished, there’s a show for that, ironically called “Catfish” lmaoooo. Don’t be ashamed, watch some episodes and you’ll see people of all ages are falling victim to this filthy scam. And, unfortunately, some are losing thousands of dollar$$$ because they believe it’s a real person and real love. Never believe it can’t happen to you, these people are con artists.

Signs they’re a CATFISH :
-Accent don’t match where they say their at or from. Usually, won’t talk on phone or video chat. If they are female/male and pretending to be the opposite sex they will disguise their voice or have a person of the sex they are portraying speak for them.
-Quickly tries to lure you into a relationship.
-Asks for money for anything from a cell bill to a car payment. Talks about they or a loved one are sick and they need money for scripts or appointments.
-If it gets this far…agrees to meet but don’t show. 9 out of 10 times they’ll make excuses why they can’t show.
-Pics don’t match voice, seem reproduced or are the same ones from the social media page You know about.
-Goes ghost from you and the internet and then reappears with a crazy ass story…most times they died or someone close to them died, accident (car or other tragedy), cancer happens a lot.
-Their grammar in texts doesn’t seem like proper English or it is as thou a foreigner is typing them due to the wording.
-These are only a few, but major, signs your being Catfished. Please be alert when on dating sites because that is where a majority of them are. -Also, social media is a breeding ground for these clowns. Remember this saying, “CAN’T SEE, CAN’T BE.” You shouldn’t want to pursue a relationship with someone who won’t show you their face, 99% of the time it’s because they’re hiding something. It’s 2022 for Christ’s sake!! Everyone can video chat somehow. At the same time, you should be diligent in verifying the info they are giving you. It’s not hard to Google anyone.
Be safe and good luck!