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Diagnosed 12/21/23
Diagnosis LOBULAR CARCINOMA
Surgery 1/31/24=Successful
All done 4/4/24🤞🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾
ALL GLORY BE TO GOD😇
The moral of my story is if you’re 40 and over, get your Mammograms! I think they should be required earlier than age 40, but since they’re not everyone under 40 needs to do self breast exams⚠️💜🫂
Because somedays we don’t feel like it or look like it, we can’t falter. We have too many people counting on us. Straighten your 👑 queens and keep pushin’. I know we will prevail👸🏾💜💯
In 2023 I am Asserting the Mastery of my Real Self!
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4DGIRLZ SAFETY Tip of the Week!
Jog with a partner
Jog in familiar areas, AVOID secluded places
Do Not jog alone after dark
Wear Reflective Vest when jogging at night
Carry a personal alarm, stun gun, or other personal safety device
Always lock door when you leave and carry key, someone could be waiting for you to leave
Always be aware of your surroundings
Only wear one headphone so you can hear what’s happening around you
Carry a cellphone
Be Safe y’all 💪🏾😇
4DGIRLZ SAFETY Tip of the Week!
Buy camera’s for your property. The more the better and preferably with an alarm you can sound remotely.
I’m always seeing/hearing stories about crime but there is no pics or video, which makes it hard to alert others….No Face No Case
I have a Ring cam and love it! Plus it runs off my home wifi so I get notifications and can watch it on my phone when I’m away.
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Everyone should be aware of the crime that goes on in their area and the areas they frequent.
Neighborhood Scout has a website that breaks it all the way down. I’ve been utilizing this site for years because it’s very in depth and easy to understand. Strangely enough it’s a real estate site…I know weird 🤣
Here’s a link for crime in KY as that is the state I currently reside but you can find info on any state in America. https://www.neighborhoodscout.com/ky/crime
Also the Feds have the CDE, Crime Data Explorer, site. I’m new to this site. I don’t like the way it spins when you click the link lol, I’m a mess, however I did like the info and set up. https://crime-data-explorer.fr.cloud.gov/pages/explorer/crime/crime-trend
The Feds also have the fbi.gov site as well. It is called UCR, Uniform Crime Reporting. Crime Data Explorer(CDE), upon further investigation it seems is the new UCR or combined with it? The below statement is off the UCR site…
Explore UCR
The FBI’s Crime Data Explorer (CDE) is the digital front door for UCR data. The interactive online tool enables law enforcement and the public to more easily use and understand the massive amounts of UCR data currently collected. With it, users can view charts and graphs that break down data in a variety of ways.
Regardless, you can never have too much knowledge when it comes to safety. Your local police and sheriif departments should have a site with tjis information as well.
As always be safe and be aware!
Questions or comments, please contact me at 4kidz4jobz@gmail.com or leave them here.
Tips when parking
Theft and Vandalism
• Whenever possible, provide each dwelling with its own locked garage within the property boundaries. Locked garages outside the boundaries or well-lit and visible common car parks are the next best thing.
• Where private garages are not are not feasible, a carport or driveway parking is preferable to grouped parking away from dwellings.
• As a general rule, underground or multi-story car parks should be avoided, as they are breeding grounds for vandalism and crime. If they already exist, danger could be minimized by limiting entry points and providing them with sturdy locked gates. Alternatively, each resident could be provided with a lockable gate in their own space, with robust, vandal proof metal doors – garages within garages, so to speak. Or users can be provided with a secure lock or plastic key card, which operates electronic doors.
• Grouped car parks should be avoided in high-crime areas. If they cannot be avoided, they should be within view of some dwellings; they should be equipped with sturdy gates or tilt doors, and should never be sited near alleyways.
• Open car parks should be small and within view of dwellings and visitors’ car parks should be clearly identifiable, well lit, and visible from dwellings.
• Most Important, BE AWARE OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS WHEN PARKING! If anything or anyone looks suspicious, don’t park there. Trust your gut every time!
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The fact that I am writing this in April of 2022 is utterly ridiculous 😫 However, here I am trying to inform whoever needs to hear this that CATFISHING is a JOB for folks. I mean real deal, pays the bills, makes a fool of innocent folks, job.
I was catfished, for one day recently. I signed up for a dating site on Friday and by Saturday this fine ass man was in my inbox. Now, I was mad at myself for going along with it as long as I did. But not so much cause I was leary the whole 24 hours and made sure he knew I didn’t completely trust him.
There were red flags out the gate once we left the site and started texting like the wording of his texts. He wasn’t using good grammar which was weird cause he looked American. Anywho, I let that slide cause his grammar improved, which was weird. Another was when he said he would delete the app and be exclusive with me after about an hour of texting. He would also stop texting for periods of time then come back talking bout reception was bad…even tho he told me he was in Houston for work and from Nashville and had an IPhone 🤥 This happened at least 3 times throughout the night.
Next, was Sunday. He sent me a text around 1230am or 1am talking bout good night after another phone mishap and I hadn’t heard from him in hours. When I woke up at 5am I replied to the text and he replied right back! I asked “why are you up?” He said, “cause you texted.”🤨 Then he sent me pics of “his kids” with him. First of all, he said his kids were 18 and 8. Child please, in the pic the 2 boys were maybe 2 yrs apart and the oldest in the pic was like 11 or 12. I asked him to video chat and he gave the tired old excuse of not being able to work the camera on the phone 😒
At this point my Spidey senses are on high alert ⚠️ I asked him if he could call me and he hit me with he was shy on the phone. Yeah right, finally I asked how tall he was and he said 5’7″…no way the guy in the pics was that short. I snapped!🤬
I cussed him up one side and down the other on Easter Sunday 🤷🏾♀️ 🙏🏾He still tried to play like I was tripping and should trust him so I told him call me right now. He didn’t call in one minute and I told him he was a 🤡 and that I was reporting his profile. Then I blocked him and reported his profile.
I’m sure the majority of the people on these sites are fake accounts but you don’t want to loose faith in people. Catfishing brings you back to the reality of the fact people suck.
So, if you or someone you love thinks they are being Catfished, there’s a show for that, ironically called “Catfish” lmaoooo. Don’t be ashamed, watch some episodes and you’ll see people of all ages are falling victim to this filthy scam. And, unfortunately, some are losing thousands of dollar$$$ because they believe it’s a real person and real love. Never believe it can’t happen to you, these people are con artists.
Signs they’re a CATFISH :
-Accent don’t match where they say their at or from. Usually, won’t talk on phone or video chat. If they are female/male and pretending to be the opposite sex they will disguise their voice or have a person of the sex they are portraying speak for them.
-Quickly tries to lure you into a relationship.
-Asks for money for anything from a cell bill to a car payment. Talks about they or a loved one are sick and they need money for scripts or appointments.
-If it gets this far…agrees to meet but don’t show. 9 out of 10 times they’ll make excuses why they can’t show.
-Pics don’t match voice, seem reproduced or are the same ones from the social media page You know about.
-Goes ghost from you and the internet and then reappears with a crazy ass story…most times they died or someone close to them died, accident (car or other tragedy), cancer happens a lot.
-Their grammar in texts doesn’t seem like proper English or it is as thou a foreigner is typing them due to the wording.
-These are only a few, but major, signs your being Catfished. Please be alert when on dating sites because that is where a majority of them are. -Also, social media is a breeding ground for these clowns. Remember this saying, “CAN’T SEE, CAN’T BE.” You shouldn’t want to pursue a relationship with someone who won’t show you their face, 99% of the time it’s because they’re hiding something. It’s 2022 for Christ’s sake!! Everyone can video chat somehow. At the same time, you should be diligent in verifying the info they are giving you. It’s not hard to Google anyone.
Be safe and good luck!
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